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Social Skills and emotional intelligence

Amakhono Omphakathi

: Ikhono lokuhola, ukuguqula, ukwakha ukwethembana, ukuxhumana ngempumelelo, ukusebenzisana, nokubambisana nabanye; ikhono lokuzwa ukusebenzisana kweqembu nokuzivumelanisa nezimo ngokufanele.

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Akukona ubukhulu obengeziwe okufanele kube umgomo wethu. Kufanele sizame, kunalokho, ukubuyisela abantu emfudumalo womphakathi, ukubaluleka komzamo nokuzibophezela komuntu ngamunye, kanye nokuba abantu abasebenza ndawonye njengomphakathi, ukwenza ngcono izimpilo zabo nekusasa lezingane zabo. 

- URobert F. Kennedy 
Vanessa Van Edwards on The Science of People with Lewis Howes
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Vanessa Van Edwards on The Science of People with Lewis Howes

https://lewishowes.com/gmyo - Get my NEW book The Greatness Mindset today! https://lewishowes.com/greatnessdelivered - Sign up for my FREE newsletter & get a dose of inspiration from our world-class guests, learn how to improve your life! Download podcast episodes a week early! http://www.lewishowes.com/pod Thank you for Watching this powerful interview with Vanessa Van Edwards! New Interviews, and Inspirational videos will be posted every Monday and Wednesday! Subscribe to the channel here: https://goo.gl/9xwmmV ----- This is audio podcast number #475 with Vanessa Van Edwards Make sure to leave a comment below and share this with your friends! Vanessa loves inappropriately intimate questions, peering into people’s shopping carts at the grocery store and eavesdropping on strangers conversations in coffee shops. In other words, she loves to figure people out. She walks into parties determined to find out the most interesting thing about every person in the room. Vanessa doesn’t believe there are boring people—just individuals afraid to expose who the really are. She’s allergic to uninteresting conversation, isn’t afraid to call BS and has long given up on social niceties. She power poses anytime, anywhere with anyone… http://www.scienceofpeople.com/ In This Episode, You Will Learn: What makes the most popular people popular (5:25) What to do to make a great impression at a big conference or networking event (8:14) The best questions to ask when you meet someone and why (13:53) How emotions are contagious (21:01) Why “fake it til you make it” isn’t the best strategy (22:03) How to get support for the things your personality struggles with (36:05) Which personality test is actually scientifically based (39:47) The one personality trait that you need to figure out between partners (41:40) What personality traits to be mindful of when dating (50:40) How to tell if someone is lying (59:58) Plus much more… Show notes available here: http://lewishowes.com/475 ----- You can follow Lewis at: Website: http://lewishowes.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lewishowes/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/LewisHowes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lewishowes/ SnapChat: https://snapchat.com/add/LewisHowes Lewis Howes is NY Times Bestselling author, entrepreneur, and former professional Arena League football player. He hosts The School of Greatness, a talk show distributed as a podcast. Learn and hear the stories from various successful people around the world, become inspired, motivated and educated with the SCHOOL OF GREATNESS. lewishowes.com/book You can follow me at: Website: http://lewishowes.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lewishowes/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/LewisHowes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lewishowes/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lewis Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lewishowes/
Social Skills Everyone Should Know
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Social Skills Everyone Should Know

Which social skills do you have? Most people don't realize charisma comes in many different flavors. There are 14 distinct social skills you can have -- knowing what your social strengths are is key to having great AUTHENTIC social interactions. Do you feel awkward? You might be using your non-natural social skills. In this video, learn which skills you have and how to improve others. In this video: 0:00 Intro 0:59 Linchpin 1:54 Conversationalist 3:22 The comedian 4:18 Speaker 4:58 Influencer 5:41 Listener 6:46 Magnet 7:36 Storyteller 8:41 Nurturer 9:30 Decoder 10:35 Leader 11:36 Connector 12:26 Dreambuilder 13:06 Chameleon 13:49 Final thoughts ****** Hi, I’m Vanessa! You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/ My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of: Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators. My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again. PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com + Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ ****** PS - Join the conversation on social! ☞ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/ ☞ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwards ☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/
The Art of Listening | Simon Sinek
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The Art of Listening | Simon Sinek

Listening is more than the act of hearing. It's creating an environment in which the other person FEELS heard. If we truly listen to someone else's perspective, we can gain understanding and engage in more meaningful dialogue. White Right: Meeting the Enemy (award-winning documentary by Deeyah Khan): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8fO7mMR-ND8 Recorded at Medtronic Leadership Lab Cultural Circle, September 2021. + + + Simon is an unshakable optimist. He believes in a bright future and our ability to build it together. Described as “a visionary thinker with a rare intellect,” Simon has devoted his professional life to help advance a vision of the world that does not yet exist; a world in which the vast majority of people wake up every single morning inspired, feel safe wherever they are and end the day fulfilled by the work that they do. Simon is the author of multiple best-selling books including Start With Why, Leaders Eat Last, Together is Better, and The Infinite Game. + + + Website: http://simonsinek.com/ Live Online Classes: http://simonsinek.com/inspireU Podcast: http://apple.co/simonsinek Instagram: https://instagram.com/simonsinek/ Linkedin: https://linkedin.com/in/simonsinek/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/simonsinek Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/simonsinek Simon’s books: The Infinite Game: https://simonsinek.com/product/the-in... Start With Why: https://simonsinek.com/product/start-... Find Your Why: https://simonsinek.com/product/find-y... Leaders Eat Last: https://simonsinek.com/product/leader... Together is Better: https://simonsinek.com/product/togeth... + + + #SimonSinek
Videos Social Skills

Imibhalo

Isihloko: Amakhono Omphakathi

Stepping Forward Counseling Center

Stepping Forward Counseling Center

Social Skills 101: What They Are and How to Cultivate Them

Forbes

Jonathan H. Westover, Ph.D

The Power Of Listening

Articles Social Skills

Izincwadi Ezinconyiwe

Nazi izincwadi ezimbalwa ezikhethwe ngesandla esikholelwa ukuthi ziyizinsiza ezinhle zokuqonda nokuthuthukisa amakhono okuxhumana nabantu. 

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Indlela Yokunqoba Abangane Nokuthonya Abantu

UDale Carnegie

...incwadi yakudala yokuzisiza efundeka njengemanuwali yempilo. Umqondo oyinhloko ukuthi ungakwazi ukushintsha ukuziphatha kwabanye abantu ngokushintsha eyakho. Kukufundisa izimiso zokuqonda kangcono abantu, ube umuntu othandeka kakhulu, uthuthukise ubudlelwano, uzuze abanye, futhi ube nomthelela ekuziphatheni ngobuholi.
— UDan Silvestre

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Ungakhuluma Kanjani Nobani

Leil Lowndes

...le ncwadi iyisicelo sokuzethemba kanye nomhlahlandlela omnene wokuzazi wena. Esikhundleni sokukusiza ukuthi ube yilokho ocabanga ukuthi kufanele ube yikho, I-Art of Talking To Yourself inethemba lokukwethulela kothile othakasela kakhulu: ukuthi ungubani.

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Ekhuluma Nabantu Abangaziwa

UMalcom Gladwell

I-Talking to Strangers kuwuhambo lwengqondo lwase-Gladwellian lwakudala, uhambo oluyinselelo noluyimpikiswano ngomlando, isayense yengqondo, namahlazo athathwe ngokuqondile ezindabeni. 

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Izingxoxo Ezibalulekile

Amaphethini; Grenny; McMillan; Switzler

Izingxoxo Ezibalulekile  ikwenza udlule ezingxenyeni ezinzima zengxoxo futhi ikusize ufinyelele ubudlelwano obungokoqobo, obukhiqizayo, futhi obuzocebisa impilo yakho nomsebenzi wakho.

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I-Social Intelligence

Daniel Goleman

Ku  I-Social Intelligence , u-Daniel Goleman uhlola isayensi entsha evelayo enomthelela omangalisayo emhlabeni wethu wokusebenzisana nabantu. Ukutholwa kwayo okubaluleke kakhulu: siklanyelwe ukuhlalisana nabantu, sihlale sibambe iqhaza “kwi-neural ballet” esixhumanisa ingqondo nobuchopho nalabo abasizungezile.

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Imingcele

UDkt Henry Cloud; UDkt. John Townsend

...UDkt. U-Henry Cloud no-John Townsend bakusiza ukuthi ufunde ukuthi uthi yebo nini futhi wazi ukuthi cha ukuze ulawule impilo yakho futhi ubeke imingcele enempilo, yeBhayibheli nomngane wakho womshado, izingane, abangani, abazali, osebenza nabo, ngisho nawe imbala.

Publications Social Skills
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